I've kept a blog for over four and a half years. This fact is often astounding to me; I didn't intend to be writing for this long when I first started blogging. In the beginning, I started to blog because I wanted to feel like my voice was heard. Ironically, the only person who read my first blog was my friend Juliana. The first blog was on blogger, and it didn't really have commenting ability. I moved over to typepad almost as soon as it started. My first official post was October 8, and it was pretty lame.
Through blogging, I have found that I am not alone. Keeping this blog has followed me through good times and bad. I chronicled my semester in Europe (first post and last) and my three weeks traveling New Zealand (starting here). I've had two boyfriends in the time I've been blogging, and I have now graduated from two different programs (BS in Biology and MS in Ecology & Evolutionary Biology). My blog has even seen a few low points, although I have not chronicled everything. Most importantly, my blog has led me to meet many amazing people, and I anticipate that I will continue to meet more wonderful people as I continue to blog. Yes, I will keep blogging. This post is definitely not an ending announcement.
In any case, back to the people. I've got a lot of friends that I've met through my blog, and people from my life here have often expressed surprise about my internet friendships. When I go to meet internet friends, my friends here crack jokes about getting names and being prepared to call the police. To me, however, meeting someone on the internet is not that far afield. I bring people home from the frisbee field, and I've made friends at bookstores and coffee shops. As I see it, the internet just extends the realm of interaction.
As has been mentioned frequently in recent times, we are in a period of intense and rapid change. Technology is altering the way our society functions. For my generation, the internet is just another component of our changing world. Over time, my blog has been less about garnering attention and more about making connections. I use my blog (and read the blogs of others) to keep up with friends, meet new people, remember details about my life, and reach out into the world to see who is there. Community has always been important to me, and I see my blog as another way I can form community in this world.
Today, dooce wrote a similar post in her monthly letter to her daughter. She writes much more cogently than I do, and I encourage all of you to read her words. They brought me to tears. Dooce writes about her family, and she makes her living from her blog. Her career decision has sparked a high level of vitriol in many, but she continues to do her work in the face of conflict. And why does she blog? She blogs for the same reason I do, and for a reason similar to many others I read: it truly is all about the community. Just as we learn from others around us, we can also learn from the words of friends and strangers that we read on the internet. Life is not so simple anymore; our words, preserved in these "pages," can follow us into the future, and more people than every before can look into our lives. But this is our expanding world, and there is much more to gain from the strength of community than there is to lose by our conscious decision to publish bits and pieces of our lives.
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